Tuesday, March 24, 2009

Hands Off!

Divas,

Do you like it when people touch your hair? I don't have a problem with it IF it's my man. Yet, some women have issues with that too. As for random people, I don't mind if someone is curious and ASKS if they can touch my hair, but for someone to come up to me and start digging through my hair really makes my blood boil. What do you ladies think? Do you mind it if people touch your hair?

8 comments:

Anonymous said...

I have tiny coils all over and people always just walk up and touch my hair...I really don't like it, but I'm working on a good Christian response to that. I have to stay right w/ God first and foremost;) any advice...BTW love your blog and vids...KIU

KellyLex said...

I HATE it when some random people just run their hands through my hair whenever they feel like it. And they have the nerve to say I don't have to cuss them off or give them some dirty looks. I allow the ones who ask permission to touch it though.

amina_vane said...

i only started to hate that when i started my hair journey, in the past it was annoying me but was quite ok
Now i only feel the harm, lol, i really don't like it
I have to force myself when my daughter wants to play w/ my hair, lol

EmpressNicole said...

I agree! I can not stand it...unless it is my man or my child! Random acts of touching is not good for the person touching!!

DPrincess28 said...

Hey Anonymous, I know what you mean, LOL. Honey, I'm still working on finding more Godly responses to everything, LOL!

Great responses ladies!XOXO

Fabulosity said...

I cannot stand it not to mention the fact that it is just plain rude. I don't even know where their hands have been and they have the nerve to touch me. I just politely yet sternly say "you're in my personal space"

Anonymous said...

It depends, if it's someone I know and that they are very gentle when touching my hair it's ok... but a stranger... I DON'T THINK SO!!! but no stranger or random person has ever touched my hair so I don't know how I would really react to this lol..

Kyaira said...

yess. like only in certain circumstances. ill be sitting in class and someone will just walk uph and start digging thru my hair and brushing it[ not because its curly cuz dis is when i just get my relaxers] theyll be like oh its so pretty and rubbing all thru it. i think its cuz i spend alot of time getting my hair the way i want it and it feels like they messed it uph even when there just combing thru it. idk. i just hate it