Thursday, June 18, 2009

Attention Anonymous Haters

*Hi Hater*

To those of you who visit my blog on the daily, and then leave ignorant, foolish comments, this message is for you: I have no time for your ignorance. Why you have time to visit my site and read all my posts, yet apparently can't take two seconds of your time to officially register and establish an identity is beyond me. If you don't like what you see, KEEP IT MOVING! Your comments will be REJECTED. You are a COWARD, which is why you hide behind the anonymous title. Similarly, those that post the nastiest comments on my YouTube videos rarely have a profile pic of themselves. Again, you are a COWARD. GET A LIFE.

I am a married woman who loves the Lord, so unless you're God or my husband, I could really care less what you think about me. Just because I post videos on YouTube and messages on my blog does not mean that you know me. Judge if you wish, but "For in the same way you judge others, you will be judged, and with the measure you use, it will be measured to you" (Matthew 7:2). I've said before that I don't mind controversial comments, or those that challenge my views. Yet, rude, ignorant, and mean-spirited comments will not be tolerated. I'm often tempted to publish your remarks just so that your foolishness can be on display for the world to see, but then I think better of it, because your negativity really has no place in my space.

To all the anonymous haters who are so miserable with their lives that they have nothing else better to do than to try to make someone else's life miserable, just know that I'll be praying you find peace. I am a writer by profession, so this is what I do. It's a shame you, on the other hand, are wasting valuable time being a hater, when you can be investing your time and energy towards something more productive. Your efforts really are a waste, because love me or hate me, you're not going to make or break me.

XOXO,

DPrincess28

24 comments:

MsChanteJ said...

Pay those fools no attention! Some folks have nothing better to do than to spread negativity. We appreciate you sharing your knowledge about hair care via this blog and YouTube. Those who hate are just jealous of YOU because they can't be YOU. Keep your head up girl and stay blessed!!

NTRALBEEAUTY said...

I love IT!!! Speak your mind girl! You couldnt have said it any better!! and still classy!..POW take that HATERZ!!!

Christina said...

Good for you! I've never understood why people spend their time being negative as if they have to visit your blog and your YouTube channel. But, as you said, all that negativity comes from self-hate. It's sad that there are so many people in the world who are miserable...goes to show how many people really need Jesus, for real!

Soultrii said...

I am really proud of you and your position and reaction to the haters. It is probably for the best that you choose not to publish their comments because that would probably spark verbal lash-outs from some of us who care about you and enjoy and support your blog (i.e. me- I would pray for them, but I would still have some things to say to them.) Please stay motivated and encouraged because no matter how many negative people you have visiting your blog, you have your divas here for support. That is probably one thing the haters cant stand.

Be blessed!

Soultrii

lakitiamarie said...

OMG! Did you really have to post a message like this? You know I hear other ladies on you tube saying the same thing on their videos...talking about the nasty comments people leave. It's so ridiculous and like you said a waste of their time and energy. I don't tolerate foolishness either and it irks me to know that we hate on each other. Please keep doing what you do and continue to shake off the haters. Be blessed and never stress!

Smooches!

sari said...

yeah forget about the haters. i really appreciate your blog. do you write for any magazines or local newspaper?

Miss Char said...

That's right girl I'm with you on this one :-)

Be blessed

DPrincess28 said...

Thank you ladies for your support! It's because of you that I keep doing what I'm doing. Trust, you would not believe the type of comments people leave. That's why I ask you guys to sound off sometimes because I want to know what you think, and sometimes I need positivity to balance out the negativity. Yet, at the end of the day, I know we all have to stand firm in our belief in ourselves, because we cannot control what other people think or feel, but we can control what we think of ourselves. Stay blessed, and as T.I. would say, use the haters in your life as motivation.

Honeybea said...

Girl later for them! I am so glad you said you will pray for them because ooohh they need it. People are simply miserable out here. I truly appreciate the time and effort you put into sharing information and I read your blog everyday! Thanks!

EbonyCPrincess said...

i will never understand why ppl do this...even if i come across someone and i don't like how they do makeup or their hair-tips, i simply move on, thinking "hey it works for them!" you can disagree, but some ppl just leave a curse word and thats it! with new technology comes new problems. blogs and YT are wonderful, i enjoy following and watchin, but some ppl can't leave a good thing alone. i'm not even natural & have NO intention of transistioning, but i still enjoy ur blog & videos and have learned from them! So more power to ya girl, keep it up!

Janelle said...

WOW, some fool ticked you off..LOL It is like you said if they are not God then "poof be gone". What a waste to say something negative about someone. Well it is like Mary J Blige says in my favorite song, "Work That", "Let em get mad
They gonna hate any way
Don't you get that
Doesn't matter if you go along with their plan
They'll never be happy
Cause their NOT happy with themselves".

DPrincess you keep doing your thing because you are inspiring in more ways than just hair and makeup and I think that is what creates a "hater", a person that is well rounded. Take it as a compliment, they spent their time and energy to say something negative..must mean they actually care..LOL

Keep up the good work.

ljmacon said...

If you have haters then you are definitely doing something right. Those that hate you just want to be you. Sad. Sad. Sad. They had to be so cowardly and leave the message "unknown." The truth is there is always going to be something better than you that is the way life makes us continue to strive to be better. Haters keep hating because while you are sobbing in your pity, drooling in your sorrow, crying in your pain, and being complacent. She is improving and getting better everyday giving you more to hate.

Dooney said...

God bless you DP...

Don't let them stop your blessings...to and fro!

nothink4me said...

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Love the fact that you are giving GOD the glory, You go girl, and while we're keeping that hair looking good, let's keep that mind polished. When you get time check out my blog at http://adultrhymesalookintoreality.blogspot.com

Ebon120 said...

I am sorry, for annonymous comments toward you that may have hurt you in anyway. We must repent for our sins daily, especially for hurting others feelings. We must not judge others, we do not know one's personality or relationship with others unless you personally know them-not through the internet. Please keep doing your ministry which is helping AA women learn how to take care of our hair. Please pray and forgive those who may have hurt you. God bless you and your family.
BTW, I will be praying for a financial blessing for you as well.

FLY said...

AMEN! I am a Cosmetologist and a Minister of the Gospel.Your thoughts are tactful and well said. God bless your desire to share with women about true beauty.

YoungMommii89 said...

Love ur blog/ recently started following u/ keep ya head up stay strong nd don't let these haters get u down/ ur helping ppl nd that's what's important/ lookin forward to reading more of ur posts!!!

Ms. Ford said...

That's what I'm talking about. I'm tired of the foolishness too...oh so tired.

Justherz said...

Hunny
They're only motivaters :)

Janice said...

It is sad that some of our people are so small minded and jealous that they have to make something out of nothing.

I truly enjoy your videos and think you provide some of the best information. I was sharing with my husband and daughter at dinner tonight, how much I truly enjoy your videos.

By the way, I will be getting the BC tomorrow and believing God for the best.

You truly are a beautiful sister in the Lord, so just keep doing what you are doing and allow God to take care of your enemies.

Love you much in the Lord.

TrinityInMe said...

I am so proud of the woman of God you are, my sister. I know that He is pleased with the content of your website, which is why it continues to prosper. Whenever God has His hand on our life there is bound to be opposition. We are not exempt from persecution, but have been equipt to endure and overcome it. "Greater is He that is in 'us', than he that is in the world." That said, to all the naysayers, In the name of Jesus, stop allowing the enemy to use u and walk in LOVE. Jealousy is a weak emotion, and has no place in our hearts. G2G(Glory2God)

TaylorMadeGreetings said...

Dearest...do not pay any attention to the individuals that leave offending, ignorant comments. Do you see the counter that shows you how many of us visit your blog (and watch your videos...Big Smile)...apparently WE value the information that you post and LOVE hearing from you.
...if it dont apply...let it fly
;-)
Wishing you All The Best...and God Bless..Big Hugs

MzNix4Ya said...

I c we both don't like foolishness. Let them haters know their place. Ur beautiful n inspiring. Kepp being fabulous. Love ya girlie :*

BlackClover said...

Just started watching your videos on YouTube today and love your energy, but don't let haters faze you! They hate because there is something about you they envy and wish to be like:)